-You get excited when new callouses start forming on your hands. -You have forgotten where you put your wedding ring. -The gorgeous jade bracelet you got in Vietnam is sitting on your dresser. -You hear rhythms in your head. All. Day. Long. -You dream about drumming.
youre a djembe player when you do play and you play out of pleasure not forcing yourself just because of the people's eyes and you have the rhythm in you soul